I have no idea what this man wants of me. Isn't it enough to tell me that I was never loved by him, never wanted, disrespected, and now he wants a divorce but WAIT, we have to stay under the same roof! So its bad enough I have done my best to be as patient and calm as can be, to now have him treat me like I don't exist in the house. This is the man that wanted things polite and cordial. He was more then happy to talk and at least be friendly, but not now!

Monday he saw my therapist, and since then he has been as tight as a drum. He was at least cordial and polite, and said goodnight, now he just avoids. He asked me to go with him to look at lights, but he just acted cold even though he opened the truck door for me. Now he just takes off after being home a total of 15 mins. That was enough time to eat something fast, talk to the kids a moment and then run off in his truck again.

I had invited him to dinner on Saturday, and I asked if that was off. He said, he should be able to have dinner, but if he is going to be distant and rude like this, why should I?

I just don't get it. Fine, he wants a divorce. Fine, he doesn't want or love me. At least tell me the rules we are playing by here so I'm not wasting time wondering what is going on all the time.

Isn't it bad enough to be trapped in the same house?